People in relationships often like to use clichĂ©s. Some of them sound really good and make people feel like they are getting the ultimate relationship wisdom but for some experienced people or singles, they make âlittle to no senseâ. It might be really tempting to use these clichĂ©s but we warn you to not do that because ultimately life is not a rom com movie and reality is very hard. Here are some annoying relationship clichĂ©s, that are impossible, highly unrealistic, wrong, lame and the list is long so, here we go.
1-Â Once a cheater, always a cheater
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People who often say this donât understand it most of the time. I mean you canât tag this line to someone you are angry with on a petty thing or you still have not come to terms with your partnerâs past and this is catering your insecurities. You cannot club immuned liars with the person who has done mistakes unintentionally or either for some reason. Everyone wants to be forgiven and there is no one who doesnât make any mistake so itâs fair enough to forgive small mistakes.
2- love means never having to say youâre sorry
This clichĂ© might sound sweeter than sugar but it has no relatability to real life. There is no organic reason for why partners cannot say sorry to each other. Saying sorry doesnât make a person small. Making an apology for a mistake is okay and it has nothing to do about your love and connection with your partner.
3- If you canât love me at my worst, you canât love me at my best
This clichĂ© holds truth and has some validity to it but some people make their partners suffer in their worst and they barely do anything to change themselves. Dealing is okay sometimes but not always. Like some peopleâs worst is even worse than the word worst itself. Your efforts are valid if someoneâs worst is worth dealing.
4- Youâre going to make someone really happy someday
Alert! This can make you feel sick like anything. Itâs like an unnecessary sugar coating that doesnât make any difference in anyoneâs life. If they believe that you could make someone happy then why are they leaving you? because they donât believe in that statement.
5- Never settle for anything less than a fairytale
 If someone says this to you then distance yourself from them because if you think a CEO will appear suddenly and fall head over heels in love with you, then keep your fantasies on hold and reboot your mind cause itâs never gonna happen! Things donât happen this way. If you like someone and vice versa then you certainly have to spend time with them, know them properly, understand if things are working and think practically. The only way to live a fairytale is to read one. This clichĂ© has no existence in reality.
This might sound harsh but there is no point in keeping unrealistic hopes from life. At least we at TSA donât want you to have one wrong hope!Â
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